Dear Maria--truly there is a wealth of teaching in that story. I believe we require great heart-mindfulness in carefully applying the wonderful gifts and blessings that we receive--constantly. If we really believe that all these things are added unto us, we will have them and it is an opportunity for correct usage and discernment regarding what to call for and when. In that case, it may have been the divine plan for her to bear the child, and not to raise it.
Thanks for printing it, Tucker