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Last Post 05/17/2014 9:02 AM by  David C Lewis
The "Magic" of the Family Meal
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04/08/2014 9:29 AM
    Use the magic of your secret/crystal rays in our hands as you grow, prepare and share your meals with your family.

    From the website The Weston A. Price Foundation for Wise Decisions in Farming, Food and the Healing Arts: http://www.westonaprice.o...search/search?q=rice

    "Time magazine published a piece, “The Magic of the Family Meal,” wherein author Nancy Gibbs asserts, “. . . there is something about a shared meal—not some holiday blowout, not once in a while but regularly, reliably—that anchors a family even on nights when the food is fast and the talk cheap and everyone has someplace else they'd rather be. And on those evenings when the mood is right and the family lingers, caught up in an idea or an argument explored in a shared safe place where no one is stupid or shy or ashamed, you get a glimpse of the power of this habit. . .”2

    The benefits achieved from consistent family meals come by way of teaching kids civility, bestowing wise judgment, and imparting core family values. Experts on the subject of adolescent development have found through studying this table-centered practice that the more often families share a meal, the more likely children are to choose to eat vegetables, maintain a healthy weight, and do better in school. In fact, a report from Columbia University states, “Compared to teens who have five to seven family dinners per week, those who have fewer than three family dinners per week are nearly twice as likely to report receiving mostly C’s or lower grades in school.”3

    Children who experience shared family meals are also less likely to eat trans fats, drink sodas, develop eating disorders, smoke, abuse alcohol and take drugs.4 Those youngsters gathering at the table with their parents at least five times a week are two times less likely to use tobacco or to drink alcohol and one-and-one-half times less likely to smoke marijuana.5

    Anthropologist Robin Fox, who teaches at Rutgers University in New Jersey, brings a historical perspective to family meals. He asserts that food is too easy to come by these days, giving a lesser sense of significance to a once sacred event. Fox says, “When we had to grow the corn and fight off predators, meals included a serving of gratitude. It's like the American Indians. When they killed a deer, they said a prayer over it. That is civilization. It is an act of politeness over food. Fast food has killed this. We have reduced eating to sitting alone and shoveling it in. There is no ceremony in it."6

    The act of building ceremony around meals is as nourishing to our loved ones as the traditional foods we strive to serve; it is part of raising well-rounded, compassionate children that grow into adults who make wise choices for a fruitful and enjoyable life."

    Read more- http://www.westonaprice.o...-little-time-to-cook (copy and paste this link into your browser.)
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    04/09/2014 2:12 PM
    Thanks, Lisa - I think this is so important - and also feel sad that so many watch tv during their meals. Maybe we
    can 'reverse the tide' and share the important benefits of a sacred dining experience with our friends and loved ones!

    Cheryl
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    04/09/2014 5:04 PM
    Hi Lisa and Cheryl,
    I agree that family meal time is important, and it can be fun too. We had a large family and we loved getting together every evening. We would joke around during desert, the best part (!). One of us would try to divert another kid’s attention while someone else would ‘steal’ some ice cream out of their bowl. We even did this for favorite foods like fish sticks. And we had education times too - with instruction from our Dad. A few times, which we fondly remember now, he would set up a whiteboard and give us a min-lecture during dinner.
    As a teacher, I know that parental guidance for homework is important too. Meal time and homework time is part of the quality time that counts for growing children and future generations!
    All this to say, yes, those were great times and I will keep this in my visualizations that more families will join in the fun of having family meals together.
    Cathleen
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    05/17/2014 9:02 AM
    Thanks to all. I am grateful for my parents for having my nine siblings and me dine together for supper almost every night of the week.
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